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Thank God for Testosterone? Confusion About Christian Manhood

Thank God for Testosterone? Confusion About Christian Manhood Dr. Mohler has an interesting post about a movement called GodMen. He has some reservations about their approach to "rejuvinating" a Christian understanding of masculinity. Here is what they list on their website as goals:

About GodMen GodMen believes that being a guy is a reason to be proud - not a problem to be fixed. We connect men to their spiritual masculinity - making them dangerous in a righteous way. In our unique conference guys will: - Have fun and enjoy some great music - without being required to cry or hold another man's hand. We promise. - Gain unique insights into the issues that typically mess men up, and practical ways to overcome them. - Talk about issues that many guys have been taught are wrong to even think about. - Help guys find real, solid friends - a band of brothers - to accompany them through the phases of their lives. GodMen is for: - Active church-going men who are looking for a fresh challenge and a larger experience. - Men who attend church but seldom participate, who wish it spoke more directly to the issues that impact their lives. - Men who have stopped attending church, even though they consider themselves Christians. - Men who have never been to church . Who Are We? GodMen is led by a group of Christian laymen (authors, speakers, teachers, and businessmen) who believe that the abundant life Jesus promised is available for men today. These lay leaders dare to confront directly the forces that are decimating Christian men today forces such as: - Pornography: the result of good sexual desires going in the wrong direction. - Fatherlessness: which leaves a huge hole in a man's soul. - False Piety: creating a caricature of 'Gentle Jesus Meek and Mild' which has ruined countless lives. - Anti-Intellectualism: which has driven many thinking men from the fortress of faith. - Isolation: the quest for spiritual self-sufficiency, which leaves men exposed to attack and ashamed of defeat GodMen reflects a fresh movement among Christian men, a return to biblical patterns of masculinity. Its purpose is to create better disciples, citizens, husbands, and fathers.
There is a definite need for regaining an understanding of the sexes within Christianity. Unfortunately, the above goals, while noble, have been poluted by the leader's comic routines are often laced with profanity. Dr. Mohler responds:
Christian manhood is not about beating chests and celebrating testosterone -- it is about showing up and doing what real Christian men do. Real manhood is demonstrated in the fulfillment of a man's assigned roles as husband, father, leader, servant, teacher, protector, and provider. Real manhood is in doing what men do, not endless talk about how great it is to be a man. Real Christian manhood is evident in taking up leadership in the home and in the church, not in crude and facile talk about Jesus using profanity when he called Herod "that fox." In other words, real Christian men are those who have grown up to be men, not those who embarrass the church and confuse the Gospel with displays of adolescent misbehavior. Let's hope this movement grows up before it blows up.

Dec 11, 2006
Mary Cesar said...
This smacks of The Purpose Driven Life, except for men. 25 ways to be a better man, husband, father, etc. If you can do it on your own, what do you need Jesus for?

If men want to be better men, it would be best if they would just attend church and the Supper, say their prayers, and read their Scriptures. The Lord grows folks in ways that a check-list never will.

Dec 11, 2006
Christopher Gillespie said...
Mary is right on. Most of these folks have a low view or new of a sacramental life. For example baptism as one-time event and the supper is a twice-a-year rememberance.

The Christian life is about being who you are. We know who we are through the Holy Ghost working through Word and Sacraments. Scripture gives us a picture of a Christian vision of masculinity. Be who you are!

I do think you need to address some of the hot-button topics mentioned directly but in light of scripture. The preached Word is wholly applicable and not disconnected from the lives of the listener. (Although we don't taylor the message to fit our vision of application.)

Thanks for the comment.

Dec 12, 2006
Christopher Gillespie said...
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Aug 10, 2010
Matt said...
@Mary Cesar
No wonder Paul said for women to be quiet in church. What you said is utter foolishness. Wake up to yourself; -it is women like you who are responsible for some of the brokeness of Christian men in the current era. You would be well advised to keep your trap shut, until you know hat you are talking about.
Aug 10, 2010
Christopher Gillespie said...
It is amazing to me how this comment proves the point of the article. Mary articulated God's view of headship in the family and in the church, namely leading through the Word and the right reception of the sacraments. The commenter was apparently offended by such a statement. Sometimes godly women have called the church and her men to repentance. Deal with it like a man.